Family Law

Living together
without being married?
Your rights are not automatic.

Many couples in Ireland live together for years — sometimes decades — without marrying or entering a civil partnership. When the relationship breaks down, or when one partner dies, the legal position can be a shock. Cohabiting couples do not have the same rights as married couples — but they are not without rights.

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A qualified cohabitant has the right to apply for financial redress

The Civil Partnership and Cohabitants Act 2010 created a redress scheme for cohabiting couples. To be a qualified cohabitant, you must have lived with your partner for at least two years if you have children together, or five years if you do not.

A qualified cohabitant can apply to court for a property adjustment order, a compensatory maintenance order, or a share in the other partner's pension — but only if the relationship ends or one partner dies. These rights do not arise automatically — you must apply to court within two years of the relationship ending.

Critically, cohabitants do not have automatic inheritance rights. If your partner dies without a will, you do not automatically inherit — you must apply to court. Making a will is essential for cohabiting couples.

A cohabitation agreement protects both of you

A cohabitation agreement — a legal contract between partners — can set out what happens to property, finances, and shared assets if the relationship ends. It is far cheaper to put one in place at the start of a relationship than to litigate the consequences of not having one at the end.

Others in the same situation

Brigid, Cork
Partner died — no will. Adult children from previous relationship inherited everything. Cohabitant applied to court.
Provision from estate ordered
Ivan, Galway
Couple separated after 9 years. Both had contributed to property in one partner's name. Redress application brought.
Property adjustment order — contribution recognised
Sinead, Limerick
Wanted to protect her position in cohabiting relationship. Solicitor drafted cohabitation agreement.
Agreement executed — both parties protected

Patricia's story — Kerry

"We had been together for twelve years. When he died, his family said the house was theirs. I had nowhere to go."

Patricia and her partner had lived together in Kerry for twelve years. They had no children and had never married. When her partner died suddenly without a will, his family — with whom he had limited contact — inherited everything under the rules of intestacy, including the house Patricia had lived in and contributed to for over a decade.

His family gave her two months to leave. She had contributed half the mortgage payments throughout the relationship and had used her savings for a significant renovation five years earlier.

Her solicitor advised that as a qualified cohabitant, Patricia had the right to apply to court for provision from the estate within six months of the death. The application set out her financial contributions, her lack of alternative housing, and the length and nature of the relationship.

The court made an order providing Patricia with a life interest in the property — she could remain there for the rest of her life. The family received the remainder of the estate.

Life interest in family home secured through court order This story is based on situations commonly experienced in Ireland and is for illustrative purposes only.

Answered plainly

No. Cohabiting couples in Ireland do not have the same automatic rights as married couples on separation or death. You must meet the qualifying criteria and actively apply to court within strict time limits. This is why legal advice is important for cohabiting couples even when the relationship is going well.
If the property is in joint names, both parties have an equal share unless a different arrangement was agreed. If it is in one person's name only, the other person must establish their entitlement through a court application. Contributions to the mortgage or renovation costs are relevant but must be proven.
Not automatically. If your partner dies without a will, you do not inherit under the rules of intestacy — their assets go to their next of kin. You can apply to court as a qualified cohabitant, but this is a contested process and the outcome is not guaranteed. Making mutual wills is essential.
Two years from the date the relationship ends — either by separation, or by the death of your partner. Missing this deadline means losing your right to apply, regardless of how strong your case might have been.

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